Alexander Discovery, Alexander Technique, anxiety, attention, breathing

Life becomes a whole lot better. 


We all love getting ready for something,

  • getting ready for friends coming round
  • getting ready for dinner
  • getting ready to catch a ball
  • getting ready to run
  • getting ready to stand
  • getting ready to sit

You probably know even more.

Some activities of getting ready do need some preparation, like making dinner, preparing for friends how will visit. However some things we get ready for there is no point is getting ready as we are ready already. These activities are generally when we move from one activity to another.

  • from sitting to standing
  • from walking to running
  • from observing to catching a ball

We all tend prepare for the change in activity by getting ready, the getting ready is a tightening of muscles in preparation for something we are already prepared for. We overthink things so we think we need to do something to get ready. Maybe grimacing your face to lift a heavy weight, if you think about it, we don’t tend to lift things with our facial muscles so why all this extra effort?

It is not just our facial muscles that we tense to get ready, it may be holding your breathe,   tightening your shoulders, we all have our favourite tightening for our own way of getting ready.

What’s yours?

The difficult bit is noticing your own getting ready patterns, that’s where I come in, my years of Alexander Technique training and practice, I notice these things in people and can offer you a different plan for getting ready where you don’t grimace to lift heavy weights or don’t hold your breathe when you decide the run or don’t tightened your arm just before you catch a ball.

I’ll introduce you to rediscovering your freedom and aliveness you once had, then life becomes a whole lot better.

If you want to know more, drop me a line or two.

 

 

Alexander Technique

In Limbo


It’s been a long morning waiting.

I’ve been waiting quietly for a few days.

Earlier I hadn’t put things on hold by my waiting.

This morning I did.

I was waiting to do something that was completely out of my control!

I was waiting for a litter of puppies to be born.

I was stuck in limbo, waiting.

Scared to move in case I missed something.

Something I hoped I could help with.

I didn’t need to help

She knew what to do and this was her first time!

She learnt very quickly how to care for her puppies.

This strange place of being in limbo, I haven’t noticed it for a long time. It is the expectation of doing something that may be out of my control or understanding.

Giving in to someone else’s control isn’t something I normally do willing, there are exceptions.

We now have 8 puppies just a few hours old, some even less.

(not the ones in the photo)

The waiting is over, time to enjoy the puppies.

Time to stop waiting and get on with my life

 

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